Photo by Charlie Harris via Unsplash You’ve probably tried Marie Kondo. Or watched The Minimalists’ documentary on Netflix. Then got all inspired to declutter your life. It might have worked…
Failed at Decluttering? Here’s One Trick You Need to Try
5 Ways My Relationship with Mother’s Day has Changed
Over the past couple of years, I’ve written some pretty dark (but hopefully dark-but-there’s-still-light) posts about Mother’s Day. I was struggling so much with the relationship that the only thing…
Best of: Children’s Books about Asian Food
Happy Asian Heritage Month! I thought that the best way to celebrate our collective Asian heritage is through books on food. Cuz how many times have we heard our parents…
Hate making decisions? Here’s how to reframe it
I used to have the hardest time making decisions. Why? Because I was a perfectionist, so I could never make not only the “right” decision, but the “perfect” decision. But…
10 Signs You Know You’re Healing From C-PTSD
C-PTSD seemed like it was something I’d have to live with… forever. But a pretty miraculous thing happened recently: I heard genuinely positive confirmations that I’ve grown. And this is…
My Miscarriage: Two Year Anniversary
Was my miscarriage meant to happen? Sure f*cking hope not. Or does the universe have a way of working things out?





